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5 Signs of Narcissistic Behavior/Abuse

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5 Signs of Narcissistic Behavior/Abuse

In the United States, the Statistics are that 1 in 3 women will experience some form of Domestic Violence within their lifetime. With a percentage that high, it is very promising to be informative of potential abusers in today’s social economy.

Being informed about signs of narcissistic behavior and abuse is crucial for several reasons. Narcissistic behavior and abuse can be emotionally and psychologically damaging, and recognizing the signs can help individuals protect themselves and seek support when needed. Here are five signs of narcissistic behavior/abuse.

Love Bombing

Love bombing is a manipulative tactic in which one person overwhelms another with excessive affection, attention, and flattery to gain control and create a deep emotional attachment. It often involves insincere or exaggerated displays of love and can be a gateway to more harmful forms of manipulation or abuse in a relationship.

Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which one person seeks to make another doubt their own perceptions, memory, or sanity by denying or distorting reality and facts.

Ex. “I never said that.”, Denial, makes you question your own sanity or validity.

Constant Lying

During a relationship with a partner who has narcissistic tendencies, it is not uncommon for you to consistently catch them speaking untruthful words. A narcissist is used to creating a false reality to mask their true bad nature and will spew out constant lies unknowing to keep up with their false ego and in hopes of charming you.

Discarding

Physical abuse is not the only form of harm. Mental abuse is also can be very harmful and disruptive. Victims of narcissist abuse often experience a “Discarding Stage” by an offender in hopes of corrupting them. The discarding stage in a narcissistic relationship is when the narcissist abruptly ends or devalues the relationship, often with cruelty or indifference, leaving the victim emotionally devastated.

Entitlement

They feel entitled to special treatment and may become angry when their demands are not met.

24/7 Helpline | YWCA Interim House

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24/7 Helpline

If you find yourself in need of help and support at any hour, remember that you’re not alone. Reach out to our 24/7 helpline at (313) 561-5300, where understanding listeners are ready to provide assistance and guidance, no matter the time of day.

Your well-being is our priority and our mission.

Memorial Day | The last Monday of May, 2023.

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Memorial Day

While often considered the unofficial start of summer in the United States, many people take advantage of the long weekend before the last Monday in May to gather with family and friends to celebrate and honor fallen soldiers of the Military, on a Federal Holiday known as Memorial Day.

On this day of remembrance, loved ones often visit the cemeteries or memorials to pay their respects to fallen soldiers. Many people place flowers or flags on graves or participate in flag-raising ceremonies. Some communities also hold parades or organize other public events to commemorate the sacrifices of those who served in the military.

What’s closed on Memorial Day?

On Memorial Day, many businesses, government offices, schools, and financial institutions are closed, as it is a federal holiday. This includes post offices, banks, and most retail stores. However, some grocery stores and pharmacies may remain open.

May Is Mental Health Awareness Month

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May is recognized as Mental Health Awareness Month in the United States. This month-long observance aims to increase public awareness and understanding of mental health issues and to promote the importance of mental health wellness.

When it comes to domestic violence, mental health can play a significant role. Domestic violence can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental health, leading to issues such as anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions. It is important to recognize that domestic violence is not just physical abuse, but can also be emotional, psychological, or financial abuse.

In the city of Detroit, domestic violence is a significant issue. The Michigan State Police Crime in Michigan publication tells us there were 91,004 reported victims and 105 reported murders related to domestic violence in 2017, which includes Detroit. Mental health awareness can help to address this issue by providing support and resources to those affected by domestic violence. This includes access to mental health services and counseling for both survivors and perpetrators of domestic violence.

Furthermore, raising awareness about mental health and domestic violence can help to reduce stigma and encourage individuals to seek help when needed. This can include seeking help for mental health issues related to domestic violence, as well as reporting incidents of domestic violence and seeking support and resources for safety and healing.

Overall, Mental Health Awareness Month is an important opportunity to recognize the impact of mental health on domestic violence and to promote awareness and support for those affected by these issues in Detroit and beyond.

Women Deserve Equal Pay for Equal Work!

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Woman Advocating for women throgh megaphone.

Take action and end the gender Pay Gap.

Today is Equal Pay Day—the day an average woman works into the new year to make what white men made at the end of last year. On average, women working full-time are paid just 84 cents to every dollar their white, non-Hispanic male counterpart makes. Even worse, the gap is much wider for women of color. This is simply unacceptable—all women deserve equal pay for equal work. Will you join me this Equal Pay Day and demand Congress take action to end the gender pay gap?  When women are paid less, they have less money for basic family necessities like rent, groceries, health care, transportation, and child care. Closing the wage gap is integral to improving the health and well-being of women and families. The Paycheck Fairness Act (S. 728 / H.R. 17) is a step towards ending the pay gap and ensuring economic security for all. Call on Congress to Pass the Paycheck Fairness Act Today!

CALL ON CONGRESS TO PASS THE PAYCHECK FAIRNESS ACT
Advocating women protesting for equal rights,

The overall pay gap only decreased by a nickel in the 21st century. Now, assume this wage gap continues to close as its current rate. We will not achieve equal pay until 2093! We cannot let women’s economic security continue to suffer. With your help, we can make a stronger impact in our push for congressional action. Women cannot wait any longer for equal pay! Contact your Members of Congress TODAY and urge them to cosponsor and pass the Paycheck Fairness Act without delay!