5 Signs of Narcissistic Behavior/Abuse

In the United States, the Statistics are that 1 in 3 women will experience some form of Domestic Violence within their lifetime. With a percentage that high, it is very promising to be informative of potential abusers in today’s social economy.

Being informed about signs of narcissistic behavior and abuse is crucial for several reasons. Narcissistic behavior and abuse can be emotionally and psychologically damaging, and recognizing the signs can help individuals protect themselves and seek support when needed. Here are five signs of narcissistic behavior/abuse.

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Love Bombing

Love bombing is a manipulative tactic in which one person overwhelms another with excessive affection, attention, and flattery to gain control and create a deep emotional attachment. It often involves insincere or exaggerated displays of love and can be a gateway to more harmful forms of manipulation or abuse in a relationship.

Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which one person seeks to make another doubt their own perceptions, memory, or sanity by denying or distorting reality and facts.

Ex. “I never said that.”, Denial, makes you question your own sanity or validity.

Constant Lying

During a relationship with a partner who has narcissistic tendencies, it is not uncommon for you to consistently catch them speaking untruthful words. A narcissist is used to creating a false reality to mask their true bad nature and will spew out constant lies unknowing to keep up with their false ego and in hopes of charming you.

Discarding

Physical abuse is not the only form of harm. Mental abuse is also can be very harmful and disruptive. Victims of narcissist abuse often experience a “Discarding Stage” by an offender in hopes of corrupting them. The discarding stage in a narcissistic relationship is when the narcissist abruptly ends or devalues the relationship, often with cruelty or indifference, leaving the victim emotionally devastated.

Entitlement

They feel entitled to special treatment and may become angry when their demands are not met.

May is recognized as Mental Health Awareness Month in the United States. This month-long observance aims to increase public awareness and understanding of mental health issues and to promote the importance of mental health wellness.

When it comes to domestic violence, mental health can play a significant role. Domestic violence can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental health, leading to issues such as anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions. It is important to recognize that domestic violence is not just physical abuse, but can also be emotional, psychological, or financial abuse.

In the city of Detroit, domestic violence is a significant issue. The Michigan State Police Crime in Michigan publication tells us there were 91,004 reported victims and 105 reported murders related to domestic violence in 2017, which includes Detroit. Mental health awareness can help to address this issue by providing support and resources to those affected by domestic violence. This includes access to mental health services and counseling for both survivors and perpetrators of domestic violence.

Furthermore, raising awareness about mental health and domestic violence can help to reduce stigma and encourage individuals to seek help when needed. This can include seeking help for mental health issues related to domestic violence, as well as reporting incidents of domestic violence and seeking support and resources for safety and healing.

Overall, Mental Health Awareness Month is an important opportunity to recognize the impact of mental health on domestic violence and to promote awareness and support for those affected by these issues in Detroit and beyond.

January is National Blood Donor Month

According to the American Red Cross, someone in the United States is in need of life-saving blood every two seconds. While medical advances have increased rapidly, there is still no substitute for the power source that runs through our veins. And although an estimated 38% of the U.S. population is eligible to donate blood, less than 10% actually does.

January is an especially difficult time for people to donate blood because of challenging weather conditions, post-holiday buzz and winter illnesses. However, giving blood this time of the year is crucial, as the national blood supply often runs dangerously low.

Since 1970, January has been recognized as National Blood Donor Month: a time to pay tribute to those who already donate, recognize the life-saving attributions of blood donations and encourage others to add save a life to their New Year’s Resolutions. If you’re still not sure if donating blood is the right decision for you, check out all the answers to your questions here, and help give life this January.

Who do blood donations help?
Blood donations help anyone who needs blood for any number of medical services. They help your friend, your family member and your neighbor down the street. In fact, one out of every seven people entering the hospital needs blood—and blood donations fill this need.

According to the American Red Cross, during a regular blood donation process, the average donor will give about one whole pint of blood. This single donation has the potential of saving as many as three lives. There are four main transfusable products derived from this pint of blood: red cells, platelets, plasma and cryoprecipitate. In just one single day in the U.S., approximately 7,000 platelets, 10,000 units of plasma and 36,000 units of red blood cells are needed. Your single pint of blood goes towards meeting these needs.

Who can donate blood?
Many people can donate blood and don’t even know it. If you’re 17 or older, weigh at least 110 pounds and are in generally good health, you may be eligible to donate. While all blood types are wanted, there are some who are in greater demand. There are four main blood types: O, A, B and AB (positive and negative).

The most requested blood type by hospitals is type O. Type O negative blood is the universal red blood cell donor, meaning it can be transfused to people of all blood types, especially in emergency situations and with newborns. And while only 7% of the U.S. population has O negative blood, only 3% has AB positive, which is the universal donor of plasma. If you think you are eligible to donate blood, you can find your nearest blood donation center to learn your blood type and see the impact you can make.

How can I get started?
According to the Red Cross, the number one reason donors say they give blood is because they want to help others. The most common reasons people say they don’t give blood is because they never thought about it, or they don’t like needles.

However, the donation process is simple and sanitary, with four main steps: registration, medical history and mini-physical, donation and then refreshments. The actual donation time lasts as little as 10-12 minutes, with the entire process typically being about an hour and 15 minutes. And while needles can be scary, the potential of saving lives is definitely something worthwhile.

If you’re interested in donating blood this January, you can go online to find the closest blood drive location, either nationally or through your local blood bank. You can even skip the line by registering online and making an appointment.

Donating blood can seem like an overwhelming process, but the difference it makes is life-saving. This year, make your New Year’s Resolutions altruistic by celebrating National Blood Donor Month in January, and for the rest of 2017.